As a treat this post we will offer two versions.
My version(with royal we):
To everyone who has been commenting and reading about our guild situation: We are still trying to decide between looking for a new guild on our server and transfering off. We are still talking with friends who are in the guild to see what is happening there. In short... we have not decided anything.
Dear Stephi and Fio. We are currently deep in negotiations with the Wulfa. We have several close friends on the server we are on and do not wish to just abandon them(some of them even came to our server because we were there)(some means one that we know of). At the same time we've found in our visits that Hidden Flame is a fun guild and we don't want you to feel like we are ignoring you.
Oh and she has no excuse... she kinda surprised me mid thought and I thought the dress was "cute". How was I supposed to know that wasn't the response she wanted... my mouth was on auto and doesn't do the thinking bit very well. By the time my brain got off of coffee break... the damage had already been done.
Basically the deal is we are seeing what our friends are doing and what the end result of the drama is. If there is a guild where those of us who are no longer in the guild are going then we might get told by the Wulfa that we are going there.
I never wear skirts. I used to but the advent of kids ushered in the era of "practical" clothing. But tonight I elected to wear a skirt because Damm's mother has her first-ever choir performance with her choir and I wanted her to know that we were taking it seriously.
Damm really likes skirts. When they're on me. I expected a "wowzer" type of response. Instead I got a "that's cute" response.
But to the guild situation. I don't want to be hasty. I don't want to leave any more hurt feelings. So basically I want to sit tight, see what happens, see where my friends are going. I think you guys(Stephi and fio) are awesome and I liked what I saw of your guild. But I don't think I'm ready to move yet.
*Stephi not Softi. Thanks TJ.